I was reading an author I really respect and enjoy, and he referred to unhealthy Christian leaders who are driven by ego to be constantly...

The title "spiritual director" is a misnomer. We don't approach a directee with an assertive plan for their life, directing them on what...

I had a dream last night about waiting tables, which makes sense, because the last time I waited tables was *checks notes* 13 years ago....

I asked ChatGPT to tell me how conflict can actually bring healing into a relationship. This was it's answer: "Conflict is a natural part...

When someone asks me what I want, I freeze. My first response is usually, 'well, what do you want?' I defer to the desires and needs of...

An ICF coach acknowledges and respects the client’s unique talents, insights and work in the coaching process Who knows best? The expert...

In the tumult of life, you are going to notice things about yourself that need attention…

It’s no secret we’re usually harder on ourselves than others. Practicing empathy for ourselves can be liberating, transformational and...

What a way with words Buechner has. Today I’m listening to my life, noticing some themes, noticing some areas of boredom, struggle and...

It's been 5 years since I moved back to America from my time in South Africa. In that time, I've worked on a number of projects, had a...

I stood at the door, letting the small business owner in with someone I didn't recognize. "Is this a new hire?" "It's actually an old...

What if we approached ourselves as gardens, not machines?

You are not broken. You are whole, creative and resourceful.

Some people don’t know what executive and life coaching looks like. A lot of people think it’s like having a mentor, or guru, who tells...

I was sound asleep when two strangers burst into my hotel room yesterday. It was 6 am. I was blinking confusedly at their yelling and...

“Why don’t you just download some accounting software to help you with that?” Immediately my advice turns into problem solving for...

Most of our educational systems train us to meet the abstract expectations in an industrial process (Seth Godin dreams about an...